To Gentlemen we take care in
September 28, 2006 — wonderlander
Living in the Age of Change is known as a top Chinese curse. Few know the entire message:“…unless you take advantage of this change”. Now history lends a unique chance, for men and women who preserve or reinvent the values of Reason and Heart, to unite this heritage for the good of our children (and for our own pleasure).
“Russian”™ people: interpreting the brand
My name is Natalia, I live in Kiev, Ukraine, and I took my 28 years (which feel 12 to 80 at times) to interrupt a professorial dynasty of National and Modern World History, to study psychology, to practice law, to learn being a woman, )) and to gain some thoughtful and passionate friends from all these fields. Our “beauties’ band” went far enough exploring the boundless world of Dating & Relationships to have elaborated considerable roadmaps. And now we want to let our experience spare somebody’s time, spirits, feelings, money and marital history.
No more cultural shocks, dummy blunders, elusive assumptions and defeated expectancies. Let’s share what Men and Women hardly ever guess the Other Party Camp really feels and thinks.
You are going to face substantial variance from what’s generally told about Russian brides, and still more variance between the observations posted in this same blog. ) Because there are two sides to every medal - and thousands of hues in the spectrum. (Even painted black and white, life still has shades of gray to keep in mind).
For teasers, let me name a few topics of what have just occurred…
Varieties, Classifications, Red Flags, Compatibility, Testing, Self-Possession, and much more…
Example: Did you know there are 7 different female archetypes, of which some are marriage material - to certain male archetypes - and the rest are not? 3 of the 7 prevail among Russian Women… which ones?
Or: What should you be prepared for, dealing with the girls of backgrounds as varied as they can be in an old-and-new EurAsian society?
- Still feeling the Soltan-in-the-Seral, blessed with a Personal Paradise with 10.000 virgins, or the First & Last Prince-in-Shining-Armour who has come to rescue a beauty from the cave of brutes? Prime illusions.
Yes these darlings want happy marriage, once and for the lifetime. And for this very reason… No matter if she may behave as sweetly as an ambassador and a private country hotel keeper in one person, or turn as “closed” as a flower overclaimed by clouds of bees, butterflies and other insects (quite many good men here as well as worthless men elsewhere…) – anyway, YOU’RE UNDER SCRUTINY, PAL! Take this for granted and see what you can do…
Living Happily Ever After
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I like things done well - so do you - so does my job. (UPD Mar 2008: having abandoned a career, I’m freelancing in law and translations, reading around, and preparing to launch my (co-)own business projects in art deals and introductions.) Add the field experience on the relationships topic, time-consuming as well ;)
Thus alas I cannot keep writing as often as I wanted. But I hereby solemnly stipulate to take due diligence to provide valuable contents as I see my effort needed.
Feel free to ask me any [relevant] questions to help determine what I should write about first,
and have a good time!
Oh, just for the case if life carries you too far…
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You’re not forearming competitors on your mating playground - you’re helping your fellow men to keep up good women’s interest, and helping me keep odd men - and women - out. ;)
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With many thanks to all whose communication or example have contributed to this “oeuvre”,
ESPECIALLY a certain Texan Gentleman believing in my cause as much as becoming Partner in Crime, -
Sincerely,
Natalia or Natalie, if you like. :)
September 29, 2006 at 8:14 pm
Hello Natalie,
Finally had some time to come by and I wanted to congratulate you on your new and wonderful blog abou Russian women! A subject we both love to talk about :)
Anways I’m sure we will be seeing each other often. If I’m ever in Kiev I’ll look you up and contact you. And if you are ever in Siberia drop me an email as well.. take care! GL
September 29, 2006 at 10:31 pm
Welcome GL, keep writing and bring thy brethren )))
October 4, 2006 at 2:56 pm
Thank you so much for your efforts in producing this fabulous new resource. Please add spell spell check for the occasional nit wit (like me!). Have added one other comment all ready, probably more to come. Truly well done and anticipate evolution and growth that will amaze.
Again, congratulations….
October 19, 2006 at 7:14 pm
Privyet Natalia!
I am very excited to have found your blog - you may have read some of my comments on rw_man’s blog…
My name is Will… I would give you my little story right here, but it may be easier for you to read it in this post on rw_man’s blog in response to a letter that I wrote him when I first discovered that he was also a big fan of Russian women/culture.
To make a long story short - I am an American guy in love with a Russian girl… I practically live with her and her mother (after the passing of her father, I sort of assumed the role of “man of the house”). It has truly been a blessing to be a part of their family.
You can count on seeing me here often. We all appreciate what you are doing.
Poka!
Will
October 19, 2006 at 8:49 pm
Thank you Will, I would gladly count on your visits and feedback! Pass my regards to Katia, I like her comments no less than yours! ;)
November 29, 2006 at 8:25 pm
Da to you again dear Comrade Natalia. Many such parables are shared with our cultures. We are not so different once the veil of the unknown is lowered. Knowledge and responsible use of it are universal. Tempered with wisdom of course. I enjoy your wit and wisdom. Spaseeba.
;)
Canajun
November 30, 2006 at 10:48 am
I return thanks to Canajun and all the world of us people serving mirrors to each other. ;)
I really feel I must turn my life to establish that Matchmaking Service.
See “Finding a Russian (Ukrainian) Wife: Travel, Agency or Online Dating?”
Best Regards & Wishes!
December 8, 2006 at 7:56 pm
Greetings, Comrade Natalia.
I wanted to say that I really appreciate all of your comments and remarks. Thank you for your time to make this website and comment on the other blog. I still have a lot to learn about the whole thing. Even though I don’t agree with a lot of things going on in this world, I really appreciate all of your comments that got me to think more and trying to evaluate my own thinking and arguments to come to a much better conclusion than before. There are many things that I may have not thought before, but I try to come down to one principle through common patterns in all angles.
I’m just a young American man in my early 20’s trying hard to make sense about the world with my latest knowledge and facts. I haven’t traveled overseas enough to see more. Sometimes I thought I have seen a lot, there’s always more things that slaps my head. I just participate in the whole action, and get real education from this experience. I realize that I still have a lot to learn about everything about Eastern culture in compared to the western culture.
Thank to you and RW_man for creating blogs to get rid of assumptions and tensions between Western and Eastern to reach the common ground for a much better and loving relationships that brings peace, love and prosperity to the current society especially in the time of wars, destructions and death. I hope we can bring all of this to our children and hope they continue to carry the torch with our examples and actions for a better world.
Keep up the good work. I will continue to read your blogs to learn more, and possibly find a nice and gracious soulmate.
Way to go, Comrade Natalia. You are great! :)
With greatest respects,
QR
December 9, 2006 at 2:15 pm
Hails Quiet Rebel, welcome to the Club! )
I’m so encouraged to hear these words from a man of reason, convictions and open mind like you.
You are ensured a lot more discoveries about how people can fulfil their aspirations in a win-win, constructive way.
Appreciatively, N.
January 13, 2007 at 3:10 pm
Natalia your blog skin is really fancy.
Natalia I remember when you said that one wasn’t supposed to act like a “Prince-in-Shining-Armour who has come to rescue a beauty from the cave of brutes“. Now since I brought this up on GL’s blog, I believe you changed it to “First and Last Prince-in-Shining-Armour“.
Might I inquire as to the dangers of acting like a prince in shining armor, and exactly why I should not do it?
–Luke Skywalker
January 13, 2007 at 4:46 pm
Dear Luke,
my message is to bring more coolness to the eager fantasies of men’s imaginations, which have been starved by Western “feminazi”, and then tempted by commercial advertisements of international agencies, as well as by fair-showcase-like Slavic folklore & hospitality, enchanting strangers.
These “Alien Princesses” live in a world different yet not too far from the West. A world more cruel one way, more mild another way. With more reason against some freedoms, and more madness against some orders. Thus, making decisions upon domestic experience, and expecting to find something 180º different abroad, can turn of tricky service. Try 90º ;)
(with all dimensions in mind.)
I am conscious about sparing my readers from repeating key words and ideas, sown all around my posts and comments, or spoken out by other people. Maybe I should rearrange some topical excerpts one day. )
Here is the comment addressing your question, Luke.
http://russianwomen.wordpress.com/2006/12/28/when-russian-girls-come-to-town-part-3/#comment-4468.
The conditions we live in are unjust, yet livable to wait & watch.
We grant foreigners credit of alleged “Princehood”, and then go checking their credibility. Oh, you won’t like this comparison… Imagine the process of cinema casting instead. And read the scripts without prejudice.
The jist of the tale is simple.
First, be a “prince” and build your kingdom.
Second, act like one.
Third, win your “princess”! ))
Fourth, bear your high titles on together.
Good luck!
P.S. I daren’t assume any “greatness” in technical issues yet. Praise WordPress design, and blame their CSS limits to excuse my dumb navigation. Improvements intended.
January 15, 2007 at 1:47 pm
“These “Alien Princesses” live in a world different yet not too far from the West.”
But Natalia, Siberia is quite a ways farther from the West than Ukraine. So if I were to get a 90º turnaround in Ukraine, maybe I would get a 120º or so turnaround in Siberia.
–Luke Skywalker
PS: Your Blog is still the fanciest Blog ever.
PPS: When you say that 80% of international marriages fail, where are you getting that statistic from?
January 15, 2007 at 4:04 pm
:-D I would reply that Siberia stands nearer to America another way round the globe, if distances mattered! (Ukraine adheres to its own Eastern traditions, and globalizes even slower than many great parts of Russia.)
Type “statistic” into the search form and find some curious posts answering your concerns. And keep in mind one encouraging thing: stats are to look out, personalities are to look for / into / after / like…
January 30, 2007 at 6:53 pm
“So, let’s cease at last this “Battle of the Sexes“ with Peaceful Cooperation, as we’ve done away with the Cold War between the USA and the Former Soviet Union Countries (bearing the “Russian” brand). ;)”
Natalia, please understand that it is not us who is pushing this ‘Battle of the Sexes’, as you call it. It is the feminists who continue to attack us and our websites.
I want the Battle of the Sexes to end, too, and so does everyone else from GL’s blog. But as long as these feminists keep attacking, we have to keep defending.
–Luke Skywalker
January 31, 2007 at 12:53 pm
It’s not my intent to distribute the blame (nor my coinage of the byword term); Russians say, it’s the wiser of the disputants who calms down first.
Along this logic, maybe I’m the fool with my attempts to do up the crosses in all T’s. ) Well, not the worst part. ;)
As I’ve said at GL’s (oh, the best half of my writings scattered around his salon!)) - Western womenfolk have done Pearl Harbor to their men, now Western menfolk appear set for a Hiroshima over women.
And it’s the defender’s part, of noble courage, to refrain from over-retaliation that would spiral up hostilities into a global “Armagendom” (a remake of a Russian word pun by Zadornov, involving folk genital metaphors of a Wretched End).
You know, some anti-feministic rants really scare off decent Russian ladies, treasuring their hard-earned freedoms in the way that a Soviet war song describes: “It is no yard of others’ land we’re claiming, / But not an inch of ours we shall yield!”
May the conscious forgive my quixotic rushes into badinage with the blind-visored arm-rattlers, more actively than I should cater for the noble knighthood of my little club. Still, trying to thought-provoke both all the way. ;)
January 31, 2007 at 2:56 pm
“You know, some anti-feministic rants really scare off decent Russian ladies”
as I’ve stated once before (somewhere), the grass may be greener in the neighbor’s yard, but don’t bring your weeds with you when you visit.
Some of these guys need to lose some of the bitterness they carry (heal their own hearts) before they approach a Russian woman or she will see it. Not an attractive sight.
perhaps in the words of John Lennon. “All you need is Love”
January 31, 2007 at 5:07 pm
Great words of yours, and much of my talk on it.
February 1, 2007 at 8:46 am
But Ceiver, this isn’t a question of bitterness or non-bitterness, or of any other type of emotion. This is a question of the feminists being bombthrowers on our websites, and us defending them. If they would stop attacking, we wouldn’t need to defend anymore.
But they simply have not been stopping. I don’t think that GL’s blog has ever gone for even three weeks in a row (except maybe at the beginning) without some feminist coming on there and insulting everyone. In fact, there was a feminist on there just yesterday I believe.
–Luke Skywalker
February 1, 2007 at 12:55 pm
Well Gentlemen, this is how the vicious circle is run…
I won’t peruse the ready-quotable doctrine of “non-resistance-to-evil with violence ”. Because the WWII was part of our people’s (and my own) history. (And it’s worth noticing that Leo Tolstoy, who developed this doctrine – also the author of a most brilliant warm insight into a lively Russian girl’s soul, - displayed much sexual perversion and misginy in other parts of his heritage.) :)
Also because I, as a woman of Ruthenian (Ukrainian / Russian) kin, can’t deny that I personally enjoy the swordplay of minds! (particularly on global concerns…) as well as featly punctures into swollen egos (mine inclusive).))
What makes our faces wry is –
- people’s waste of heart and time wallowing in anger and insults,
- men happy to shed this heavy decoration the “gentle-” hat to the dirt on the occasion of hearing whom they regard as a “no lady” (it is in treating “inferiors” and “adversaries” that nobility is proven!),
- and/or fighting sound points because they come from a female neighbor, impudent or not (throwing the baby out with the bath water).
The Feminist bugaboo is a real test for great, sound and secure Manliness! Force = Perception = Generosity… An elephant is not afraid of pugdogs. (The Russian fable by Krylov here)
Some chip-shouldered guys (may I not call usernames) would get a bumpy ride on a Russian woman… not a long one, if any long.
Beyond all these considerations, I’m reluctant to interfere into those fights with “bomb-throwers”. None of my uninvited business. )
But for any important discussions on “gender matters”, welcome to my posts that contain the searchwords “feminism” or “feminist“.
(Well, a heap of other posts discussing sexual / social / family roles forgetful of “-isms”… just life as we face it.)
February 2, 2007 at 1:19 am
Luke Skywalker,
you have studied the great masters,
now go think on your own,
don’t worry what others are saying,
they don’t walk in your shoes…never will.
Are you running away from feminist, or are you running to a love.
I’m not going to Russia/Siberia/Ukraine becuase of the feminist. I have no time for the feminist. I don’t care about the feminist. I don’t care about their insults. I don’t have time for them. They are no threat to me. I am content in my own beliefs and values. I do have time for a loving relationship, with friends, with Russian lovers.
And I will continue to defend the freedom of my country.
I can listen to you rant and rave, I have patience, I will not argue, my beliefs and values are mine, I don’t have to prove them to you. Perhaps you will accept them… Perhaps I will accept yours. Even better we will share …some of them. (some of the time).
I think I would like to smell perfume right now, I’m in the mood.
February 2, 2007 at 2:58 pm
Luke Skywalker,
actually only the first 4 lines of my last comments are challenged to you. The rest of my comments are my own rantings.
and I would still like to smell perfume now…on some warm skin…..
May 14, 2007 at 4:56 am
Ceiver … “and I would still like to smell perfume now…on some warm skin…..”
Would you settle for a few pheromones? Or is it Fair-a-Moans?
July 15, 2007 at 7:22 pm
Privyet Natalia!
I came across your site and think it is great. I have added a link to this web site on http://www.red-october.net. Hope you find my web site appealing enough to link back to it.
Thanks!
Kelly
Red October
Hi Kelly!
I’m sorry for being away, - probably my silence was your reason to remove the link you kindly made.
Honestly, I almost quit reading after MOB post and all that “bearland safari” patchwork. But earlier essays below earn you a link on this page. Special regards to Lena and her own diary!
Sincerely, Comrade Natalia
with virtual compliments: a bottle of vodka (235 kcal / 100 g) and “Russkiy Shokolad”, the brand I’d recommend among others(550 kcal) ;)
July 30, 2007 at 8:36 pm
I think that what is discussed this thorny question is the non-romantic nature of discord… doesn’t matter the origin or reason.
But I agree with Luke for this reason in particular. For several decades most Western men have ignored this entire Cult of the Feminazi debate. And so now we the consequences of our own indifference.
Our collective nations have legislated too heavily against men and men’s rights. And simply ignoring this unrelenting attack against us, solves absolutely nothing and assumes agreement from the male population.
The Feminazi’s have had a free ride in their assault against our right to live as men without draconian laws which prejudice our interests outright.
What I’m saying is that the way to ensure an even greater nightmare in the West is to adopt and even greater indifference.
On the other hand, while in Russia, yes, it is wise to not be a raving maniac, which is neither understood nor a matter of interest by its girls.
Not romantic to be “an angry man”.
That being said, I plan to be outspoken within Russia and will freely offer my warnings as to the ongoing plan to Westernize Russian culture by some extremely powerful, patient and highly financed Western groups of people.
None of their suggested changes improve Russian society or general life. This is their illusion.
So, without bitterness, due my daily joy; but, without also indifference due to my life’s experience, my experiential knowledge of how the West was overtaken from within.
Carry on Luke. And Ceiver, yes, elegance and rage are not the best of bedfellows.
It is easy to take a lofty position on this issue. It is not so easy to live in the world which is built on lofty ideals.
August 6, 2007 at 11:08 pm
Well, “the Evil Campaign of the Rotting West” is Russians’ own favorite manical phobia to rave and rant over, - to the disgust of the balanced rest of population, where women of “international wife material” belong.
Guess why FSU women seek or welcome Western men, and why men from the East - even Caucasian-looking, European-educated - have so much lesser comparative success rate in correspondence and travel-dating? If these women’s interest were caused by “lack of men in their own country”, chances would have been even, wouldn’t they?
The notorious demographic gap between men and women here starts at the age of 40 and becomes critical at the age of 60. And when you read the important reservation about the “lack of quality men”, it is not just about health, sobriety, income and non-battering.
We aspire to meet the degree of consideration, care, and also protection that Western women are “entitled to”. Otherwise, why not just grasp at a first passing fellow man of same language, tradition, experience and accommodation? Why, - can you imagine this, - why would we so lightly retreat the Russian men to eager women from Middle Asian FSU republics (who reason that these men are “easier to rule”)?!
I would say, a Russian woman is made & worth of same as a Western woman, minus hostility, plus looks, plus need for family, plus self-perfectionism, plus grateful appreciation of all the good in you and from you.
My Texan partner Joseph whom I quote here and there - for good reasons of his comprehensive intelligence and experience (married three times, to Americans and to a Russian woman in Siberia) - would make it the first ever advice to the seekers of a Russian or Ukrainian wife:
Remember the best women you’ve ever known in America. Sum up their best features. Now you can imagine a normal Russian woman. This is a promise that you’ll meet better women here. This is not a promise that you’ll have better success with them than that you could expect at home.
And the bottom line… Any fixation, however justifiable, arises a doubt: “Is there anything more about you as a personality?”
August 9, 2007 at 3:46 am
I’m beginning to understand why Soviets are most often the world’s best chess players. So many considered perspectives on any particular topic.
From my limited experience, when a Russian speaks about any particular issue; an entire smorgasborg of ideas is on the table.
When a Westerner speaks about the same issues, the menu is usually fast food.
Seems what both Real world’s are after is social and personal normalcy and appreciation.
“This is a promise that you’ll meet better women here. This is not a promise that you’ll have better success with them than that you could expect at home.”, Natalia…
Which is why Western men must raise themselves to the challenge. It’s a given that our personal lives are complex and that success is not an automatic process.
I continue to remember mental pictures of Canadian men in exercise clubs… masculine, ambitious, devoted and attentive to their girls, relatively worldly, attractive, materially dependable, considerate, and so on.
And when I do, I wonder why these Real men and their better halves continue to live lost and lonely.
Whatever I can reasonably do to help. Such people of higher caliber would have much more personally rich lives if only they could finally meet. This is beyond a reasonable doubt.
“I would say, a Russian woman is made & worth of same as a Western woman, minus hostility, plus looks, plus need for family, plus self-perfectionism, plus grateful appreciation of all the good in you and from you.”, Natalia…
Yes, there is a heaven on earth.
And may their counterparts find each other.
I’ll keep you posted as to my own “slice of heaven”.
Kind regards.
August 10, 2007 at 11:28 pm
Thanks, my wonderful chessmate. Let’s help the best of our fellows meet! And… “what Russian man ain’t fond of fast riding”, what daughter of my motherland would refuse the guilty pleasure of constructive gossip. )
August 22, 2007 at 4:29 am
To any who read my posts where I have defended the opinions of Luke Skywalker…
Luke’s opinion is that prostitution and sex tourism is the purview of Real men. And I find it entirely naive, and abhorrent.
And yes, how can so young a man be so bitter? In previous posts comments were made in reference to his general angry attitude. Yes, it’s not a happy feeling to be hated by girls who carry such negative purpose in their lives.
And now, boys like Luke, who claim to be representative of Real men, are openly advocating and recommending prostitution and sex tours.
Natalia, as you know from my earlier posts regarding sexual energy systems which increase bonding and pleasure to the maximum, that the empty one-sided sexual practice of prostitution could not be further from my beliefs or from what I would defend is the feminine right of the world’s finest girls.
He is more than his fair share of disingenuous when he compliments you Natalia on your site or your opinions and yet has the audacity to whine that your posts demand too much learning on the part of Western men.
Any good knowledge of Russian girls makes the viability of a personal relationship that much greater and much less stressful or confusing. And for this I’m very grateful.
I certainly will never whine as Luke does that there is too much to learn. I have also heard that all girls are only separated by national flags and different anthems. And again I cannot agree. Russian girls are demonstrably different than Western girls, as you yourself noted in a recent post which makes the distinction clear.
For those who truly understand that to love is to serve, such people consider to give one’s love their best possible selves, is in fact, the finest part of love, its selflessness.
And how can this be achieved without an ever-improving character and life? And how can this be achieved without great information? Obviously it cannot.
The world is filled with people who want something for nothing, who want the finest and most attractive girls, yet who offer “just love me for who I am” in return.
People are compelled by love to give. Only boys take a girl to dinner and calculate their planned later sexual encounter based on how much she costs at dinner. Absolute imbeciles. Russian girls are not cheap trash. They’re truly exceptional.
And of course, there are some whose hearts are filled with cynicism beside their jaded souls. But this is the task in life. To learn who exactly is the one who speaks beside them.
Nothing of value is for free. So obvious it’s redundant. But stunning how so many cannot understand that love of a good woman is the finest part of life.
And no hooker anywhere will give spit for her customer who was inside her ten minutes ago. Because she didn’t give a damn about him when he was in her.
The finest of sexual passion and pleasure is born of love. The greater the love, the more intense the pleasure. Sounds also more than obvious. So why do boys pay for what can never be purchased? Because they are boys looking for a quick fix to their lack of social appeal. And any great book takes a long time and huge energy to write.
And that includes the wonderful book here on this site.
And if the whole mountain is in front of you; then, at least look towards the top while digging your heals in at the bottom.
Somewhere, sometime, when you’re on this climb to your best possible self, truly exceptional girls will start to notice. And yes, even the less fine ones.
How utterly naive to think that a horrible, arrogant foreign man can ever make the truly finest girls in the world happy.
Thanks for your wonderful information. I will only recommend Real men to Russian girls. It’s interesting to see men from this perspective. As if I’m looking for my sister’s mate. And when I do this I understand what all girls do when they themselves are receptive to a relationship.
August 22, 2007 at 7:02 pm
Natalia…
An addendum to the previous post. One which can give some perspective to my wishes for all Russian girls of good heart and desirous of profound and enduring love…
http://russianlove.wordpress.com/tag/real-men-of-the-west/
All the best.
I don’t dare bring up chess again!
August 28, 2007 at 7:20 pm
Thank you, Rexpat. “Real men only need apply” - so true.
NOTE: Gentlemen, whenever you wish to continue external discussions on my blog, please kindly provide links to the initial threads, for the convenience of all.
And my couple of cents…
I love these sayings: “Cynicists are made of failed romanticists”, and, “In the same puddle, one man sees mud, another sees the sky”.
Who wants some Russian zen? ) There’s a sweet Soviet cartoon named “The Little Coon“. The Coon can’t bring home any water: he’s scared of Him Who Lives in the Pond, who makes angry faces and waves a stick even bigger than one that the Coon himself carries by the advice of his friend Monkey. Until Mother Racoon suggests that he should bring a smile instead of the stick…
August 29, 2007 at 4:46 am
“Until Mother Racoon suggests that he should bring a smile instead of the stick…”, Natalia…
I just love it when a girl reminds a man about the importance of charm. You know, you’re beginning to really
grow on the guys, Natalia. Stop it.
The above post refers primarily to the power of love’s desire to please. And a key sign of more genuine reciprocity of love is when this desire to please is both evident and ongoing for both parties and expressed through the desire to improve … voluntarily.
Recently I have been stunned by the rage in some men who are so abysmally ignorant of love, that they interpret an overt desire to please and bring the best of pleasure to one’s beloved as a sign of loss of male power and obsequiousness. For such socially retarded males, they will then never know the beauty of true weakness of a girl.
For only in full surrender to love, is a man at his most powerful … in the eyes of his girl. And perhaps all who warmly observe him.
Now if only I had written it this way in the original.
Distance and reflection.
Know what I really like about you, Natalia? Not gonna tell you… again.
November 30, 2007 at 1:36 pm
Is this a computer generated blog?
“But I hereby solemnly stipulate to take due diligence to provide valuable contents as I see my effort needed.”
Natalia: No, it is my wry sense of humor, self-ironizing on the legalese background. ) Sorry for another delay in posting, after I’ve promised a load of info on a burning subject. To be continued.
March 10, 2008 at 1:04 pm
Bravo Natalia. Beautiful and sage advice as ever. I am back and in search once more. Bestwarm wishes and belated happy Woman’s Day to you.
:)
March 11, 2008 at 2:11 pm
Thank you, welcome, best of luck! )