Fast-Find the Right-One Russian Bride Know-How Procedure
November 3, 2006 — wonderlander“There are no mistakes in life, just feedback”. Let us better feed by our gains! Here’s a time-saving and all-round efficient algorithm to manage the “Embarrass of Abundance“ (or “Paralysis of Choice”) in 5 steps and a single universal test.
Step 1. Reference. - Are you sure you are sure?
Life is a terribly meticulous user-friendly service. Everybody’s getting what they want; the irony is just that not everybody realize their inmost urges, not being used to sorting out their ideas, feelings and desires, - to leave alone the subconscious rest of the iceberg (which we Russian-cultured women so fondly love to probe and melt into). Single personal introduction resources, especially international dating online, help it intensively: Each new contact is a fresh, sharp mirror to your current moods and needs, - just pay attention.
The Top Office’ Manager keeps asking, “Is this what you’ve ordered? So how do you like it? Ready for change-over?” And it takes a thinking more discerning and an answer more responsible than it may seem…
* A Russian joke (may sound as politically incorrect as the Former Soviet Union still affords,.. but please tell me to remove it prior to imposing sanctions): “A dark-skinned rambler has caught the Magic Fish capable of making his three wishes come true. - I want to be white, - he says, - to be needed by all women, and to see them take their panties off for me every day. – And the honest Fish turns him into a toilet bowl at the ladies’ room.”
Step 2. General. - What do you need a [Russian] wife for?
To make you happy? To let you make her happy? In what ways? Try the good old Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs as a memo to have no wish left out, while you would imagine the relations that should make you feel each level of your dreams fulfilled. (The pattern lacks the “Children” paragraph because the kids should be given pyramids of their own!)
Now the fun begins… What is the sense of all this? What is a goal, what is a means here? Can two people ever meet each other’s needs for the lifetime?
* May I humbly suggest a version. We all are here for learning & upgrading & applying ourselves to [fill in your view of purpose], willfully and unintentionally helping others do the same. The use we make of dating and relationship communication is lessons, - Wondering and Understanding as the core disciplines of the comprehensive course in Love. And the more a couple has to find and offer every day, the longer they can stay together.
The “means-or-meaning” attitude in love, or “who’s whose center of his/her life” approach, have certain vacancies and drawbacks, to develop on for megabytes. Just one hint… In Russian men-&-women romantic language, “life partner” sounds “life fellow-traveller”. Neither destination point, nor vehicle… interpreted as “helpmate” to cruise by the same route line.
Step 3. Rational. - What characteristics should Your Woman have to qualify for marriage?
Having grasped your dream, you can now specify what your dream woman is made of, to check and trim your overwhelming Beautiful Eastern European Ladies Contact List from Quantity to Quality. I hope you’re touring Russian Marriage Dating Network just for a One and Only? ;)
There are some five billion people in the world… even if, all dead-ends excluded, a MILLION is left, it takes you 30 years to say hello to each… and when a Western man has pulled one Russian bride-girl’s leg for a while, she may waste some more time to help reduce his audience by thousands of fellow-women (see Russian Brides Revenge - blacklisting is a two-way street; good if not blackmailing).
Oh, did you begin your “order form” (the filtered search setup) with color criteria? When it comes to looks, you never know what image strikes you! Well for the gentlemen believing in the laws of body shape / hair & eye colour / Zodiac, I will provide a full guide on specific signs and omens. )
* Russian Girls Amusing Fact: the bodily dimensions of one and the same woman may range vast, depending on her heels (up to +12 cm in height) and seasonal festivities (traditional Russian / Ukrainian cuisine’s Slavic- Eastern rituals, if followed regularly, suggest the “garmoshka” (concertina) pattern of weight gain-and-loss… oh, one more little Russian woman’s intimate secret she never tells!))
All important factors of compatibility (a near-exhaustive catalogue provided here) can be grouped into 8 lists, to arm you with the tool for an easier choice among “all perfect” candidates, by their personal profiles and by the information they provide as you talk and correspond (Step 4 and all the way).
Marriage Partner Candidates Evaluation Balance Sheet
Primary criteria Secondary criteria
Her features from your point of view:
«+» | indispensable | desirable
«–» | intolerable | tolerable
Your features from her point of view:
«+» | you guarantee | you want to try
«–» | she must appreciate | she should tolerate
When she says she wants to learn a “plus” or quit a “minus”, rely on it. Russian Women’s love for love, their sacrificing attitude, and self-improvement itch work wonders. When you say you would,… too late: you WOULD (Russian Women’s partner improvement itch is sexually transmittable! and nagging hard.)
Step 4. Practical. - Fish for Species where they HarborImagine a big river full of fish - all sorts of. The river’s flow, its water, banks and bedscape vary. Fish can swim everywhere. But, casting different fishing gear at different places, you get different takings of different species.
My pleasure is to equip you with a sort of fisher’s guide. Here follows a series of posts to know where you go, what methods are available and what is to expect from using them.
Of course it doesn’t claim to be a law, - just regularities and logic (which you are unlikely to be told elsewhere as it may sound unpleasant), - but forwarned is forarmed, and efficiency is spending effort where chance is more and difficulty less… still more exciting the surprise may be.
Step 5. Immediate. - Heart & Body Language
Focus on those photos! They are posted on the dating sites and marriage agencies bride catalogues for your convenience. Dumb boys get distracted and deluded, smart boys watch beauty through the “skin-depth” and easily rule out whom they would find mismatching.
Explore her eyelook, her features, her expressions, her physique, her poses. Give an exercise to your imagination. How would she behave in different situations? What would she look like in the long run?
99% that she has chosen from her favourite pics.
90% that she has done some thinking about what impression they are going to produce.
70% that her three posted photos would look like three different women.
80% that she looks still different in real life,
50% her 3D original is much more beautiful…
However unexperienced you may be in face-reading (an express seminar here!), and however hard it’s to distinguish your own feelings from social judgements, and discriminate between excessive fears, wishful thinking and the true voice of intuition, - if you notice any sign of discomfort about the woman, this is a valid reason to think twice.
And the Absolute Checkpoint…
“DOES THIS - YES, THIS VERY PERSON - LOOK AND FEEL WHAT I POSSIBLY WOULD SEE AND FEEL TILL THE END OF DAYS?”
Re-read into her profile and messages. Is there something special about her that could make you want to answer “Yes” for ever? When she is ill… When she is tired… When she gains weight like it so typically falls on Russian women bearing children… When she is angry… When she’s growing old…
Can you imagine growing old together? Then go ahead )
May Your One show up sooner!
Sincerely,
© Comrade Natalia
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January 14, 2007 at 4:02 pm
I feel when I look at some of these catalogs (a box of chocolate…which one first…creamy center or dark chocolate?) Some things cannot be found in these catalogs.
I question..what will she look at when older (look at her mother).
Look at her children…Do they look stressed?
Look at her facial lines? Is she stressed.
I look for maturity,
Yes she looks sexy and beautiful…but is she SENSUAL? oooo la la
Does her pose look forced…or is she comfortable.
Does she have style…how does she paint herself with makeup (she doesn’t need it) with clothes?
Is she high maintenance..
and probably most of all… it’s that subtle smile and the sparkle in her eye that shows her wonder of the world, her playfulness, her true spirit. That’s what I want to share.
just my thought hurried thought
now for some coffee!
It’s rather funny in contrast, and this is not about bashing western woman but…
The western catalogs feature woman who post the photos of themselves from vacations…total non-glamour here. They photoshop their ex boyfriends or husbands out of the picture, the arm is still wrapped around them. They include pictures of their cats, dogs, cars. There’s very few that would be attractive.
January 14, 2007 at 4:34 pm
You can strike this if you wish.
My intuition of the hostess of this site, photograph unseen.
She is young, pretty, beautiful, sexual, sensual, she will look the same as old as her mother and still be youthful, but mature in look, highly intelligent, she has a young man that appreciates her, she appreciates him. She has dark hair, fair soft skin, sparkle of wonder in her eye, she looks great in red.
January 15, 2007 at 10:23 am
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…And valuable thought, Ceiver the Perceiver. So much to be added to develop this topic. )
(BTW what is “high maintenance”? “Well-groomed & fine-packed”, or “arrogant”?)
…The more mature you get, the less pics you take, and the more critically you review the previous ones (picturing your youthful consciousnesses).))
Oh how you taut up to the Eternity & Mankind watching you with the camera eye.
Oh how I tried to make up age in the early years of my career when anyone takes you for a “schoolgirl” [you are] ). And with that Dandy Dress Code… had to cut hair short to avoid all the Explicitly Implied Interests of local business culture. As if it could make me a schoolboy.)) …
You know, I have better trust for our women’s casual photos on walks and vacations. Haven’t you seen any of such?? I mean spontaneous pics, reliant on our permanent trim styles and on a fair camera work (the more that digicams win the market).
Pets. Quite informative to distinguish the Life-Loving and the Posing by the air about them. (I also agree that it reduces audience by its attitude to animals.)
“Me + My Car”… yeah, pretentious. Unless unrestrained self-ironical, like sitting on the road or grass (some nice people seen so). And leanings are… quite a glossary of body language.
Stumps left from friends (whatever sex) are indeed blunt lack of thinking (or awareness of the “Crop” tool).
But my bottom line is that these “vices” that you ascribe to Western women are totally applicable to Men! Especially those female buddies not everybody even bothers censor out)))
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Well, this child of avatar construction workshop is in fact a realistic clone of myself-in-full-dimensions. One refrains from giving one’s photo, as well as some personal details, to retain this subtle veil of mystery so that to be an easier confidante to every reader. But certain things may not, and shouldn’t actually be consealed in writing (*a light affected sigh*). I guess you can now see me pleased-blushing. ))
January 15, 2007 at 11:41 pm
‘Tis not my intention to remove your veil of mystery, but to test my own interest and intuition. I am honored that perhaps I can still cause you to blush.
As a photographer, I agree that the candid photos reveal more realistic character. I do appreciate the studio photos as well, as they reveal the spirit and fantasies of the women as well. Perhaps again I am testing ‘my reading’ of their thoughts.
I have also learned there are some things the camera cannot capture.
‘realistic clone …full dimensional self’. Interesting!! Shows strength in being you.
January 26, 2007 at 2:08 pm
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