Guys’ eyes are valuable mirrors. But a Russian Girl ™ can bewitch any guy… not another Russian Girl ™. What may let – and make – the latter help, and whom?
I’ll start from the “let’s-love-right” consideration. Just yesterday I met my friend back from Paris, rolling her eyes at her French romance (he fell in love while she fell out). Lemme quote this case later on the page, and refer to dear Comrade GL saying:
“there’s no way any woman can honestly tell you how to court a woman in any realistic way”, and
“well, they are… Russian women… [and whom would you prefer] to look out for your back in an unknown situation?” (Be as graceful as to leave me Ukraine, alrightie? ;) It’s not to dispute your authority, Lord of Taiga…)
He who posesses information, posesses the world. How is man going to overtake a woman’s feelings without knowing what they are? (Yes, complicated… Yes, nebulous… Sorry. My fault. Personal fault. Justifications in this comment.)) But Mr Hunter Winner MAN-ager, who tells you life is easy? ;)
Sorry guys… You don’t like a flagwoman in your bed, do you?
Neither would we confront our Men with instructions! And thence…
What happens in life? One reads some “Casanova sex advice”, by a fellow man: “In the process, massage her clitoris, it is a such-and-such thing”. Now he’s lucky to know THERE IS this detail, and rubs diligently “somewhere there”. She prays he doesn’t hit the target again. (It hurt.)
As many women, so many sensualities, and modes of touch, – same stuff with the daily understandings.
Naturally, it is as well difficult to give universal advice to / about all Men… and vice versa.
And you won’t like discussing Other Men’s experience and Other Women’s tastes directly with Your One – would you?
So the twitter is always divided into retranslations: Boys’ Room Talks, Girls’ Room Talks. Ever dreamt of spying into each others’ skin? ;)
Now total blasphemy. Russian “Playboy” once found a solution: a lesbian columnist!!
(Before I utter a word about female editors-in-chief of 2 very male Russian magazines, would I have to shrug off one more “black label”, next to the “feminist” dub?))
Had I to choose one, I’d wear a stripe “RELATIONSHIPS ECOLOGY ACTIVIST”. People’s troubles in love, and loss of faith in human values, just ache me, like extinction of rare species raises nature lovers on their feet. In my childhood, some comedy-of-mistakes like “The Irony of Fate” would make me cry as if I watched a massacre of baby seals.
After school, I digressed from the previous intention to go for a “Professional Psychologist”. (Not from self-education of course.) Now I’m an apprentice to one.
Dr. Tamara, my Partner in this Consulting & Introductions venture. HR Management, Personal Coaching, Relationships & Family matters. An epitome of Wise Kind Young Old Lady. The one to make a wish “if you were me!” a welcome moment of reality. Well, a magician, though she never tells. )
I confess having a period when I proclaimed, “I’m not a woman, I’m a Lawyer”. (It was difficult to gain professional recognition,.. which I did). Stop! Don’t shoot! It’s long that I earnestly believe “I’m not a lawyer, I’m a Woman”.
(Relations, our sex’s traditional domain.)
Through my experience in Ukrainian and international legal affairs, I’ve just learned something. The treacherous bounds of law (with its multiple interpretations, loopholes, interests and non-enforcement powers). The bound-lessness of men and women’s pains (with all sublimity and dirt, survival games and mean tricks, sacrifice and crime, most brilliant schemes and stupid errors). Enough to have lost confidence… and regained faith.
Now the Strings Attached.
* Profit? Well, from my posts and comments you can see I’d rather scare away half traffic than produce some “loser-friendly” propaganda. (Who doesn’t, let him not take offense.) Leave gross market to the mafia of all kinds.))
All my life I’ve been as lazy as to do but what I enjoy (Learning, Making, Sharing, Comfort, Daring). Yes, the “first law of good life”. If you are a “normal” human being (can you find an exception from “norm”? ;), it is likely that some more “normal” human beings would find reason to enjoy your work and reward it. (Otherwise, why take the effort, time and space.)
* Curing My Own Scars seen in Others? Honestly, I can’t boast many injuries, – there have been thousands of folks, before & beside me, to watch, listen, read, and think what to do or not to do. (Have been keeping my legal clients from litigation, likewise.)
No, sure I HAD deserved some bumps in my life!.. Hopefully, I’ve cured them, or had them cured. Learned to be alone, learned to be together, learned to be myself. Learned to live and let live, and to die a novice.
(My Will Epitaph: Studied “Being Grown-up”. Quitted as a dummy. To be left back for re-doing the course. ©)
* Helping Gals Get Outa Here? There is a Russian rule, “The gifted need assistance, mediocricy will push its way.” The finer woman there is “here” – but still more, the finer MAN you are “over there”, – the harder it’s to find a worthy mate, and to such people my sympathy belongs.
May they who seek each other – safely grow and cherish the “diamonds” of their virtues, to be matched with their likes.
May professionals and enthusiasts – spare the above from sieving “rock” and rocking “thieves” all over the Dating Fair of Infinite Choice (which has brought about the “deteriorating selection” and the “transactional cost” of overcoming it).
There’s a niche for everyone, so why “eliminate competitors” ;)
I’m very closely acquainted with one more lady who’s a teacher – and a life teacher! – to hundreds of young educated Ukrainian girls, whereamong she can distinguish, through long-term group & individual communication, the most classy, beautiful, cultured, intelligent, good and kind.
And as the final instance here comes His Honor Sir Joseph with an expert’s eye for “real value”, sharpened on art & antique business for decades! )
I believe in “second halves” (well, admitting allowances for “several chances” and “several lessons”…) rather than a possibility of anyone’s match with anyotherone.
And, with all my referrals to old Engels’s ideas of “Material Basis”, I declare that, without Love, the gold of the world is nothing but a compensation for moral detriment (deeper layers of linguistic joke here). Even Oscar Wilde was not a bad moralist inside his heart. ;))
PUTANAS NO PASARAN.
But how can I do without a “hairpin”!
From my recent conversations with Americans, it’s funny how all their stories of Lofty Feelings build on Settlements. (And yesterday’s broadcast “Intolerable Cruelty“: “Why kill the woman I love if she’s richer than me!”) So I hope this example of dating primaries would touch to the quick place. ;)
Yes, “right on the money” as you would say. My Friend + Her French Chevalier.
On their long walks, he was loading his guidebooks into her bag (“’cause I can’t stand carrying stuff with me!”), where she was already dragging a big bottle of water (her buying, both drinking). “How nice to be a girl, – he was joking, – just hit a place and everybody treats you!” When finally she gave him a piece of her mind for never treating her to a cup of coffee, he turned an embarrassed child. “Did you wish it?! I thought you’d take offense if I suggested! Let us make a dinner, dear!” (Which meant “at my place, ingredients paid in shares as per who eats what.”)
And these people call us selfish.
(Little Bobby [a Russian "Dennis-the-Menace"] peeping at his parents making love: “And these people forbid my picking my nose!”)
So, keep dropping in, dear guests. What if you find something no other man or woman gives you? ;)
Sincerely,
© Comrade Natalia
(cheerful and appreciative of your appreciation, as usual.)
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